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NOW ITS BEEN A CASE OF DOING OUR BEST AND SURVIVING NOW EVEYTHING HAS CHANGED",,,WE
ARE ALL IN HERE FOR A REASON A SEASON OR A LIFE TIME..........
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the
reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes
they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an
unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you
must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but
friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a
lifetime.
GOD BLESS.......
Ready or not, Someday it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises,
No minutes, hours or days. All the things you collected,
whether treasured or forgotten, Will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, Fame and temporal power Will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned Or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations, And jealousies will finally disappear.
So, too, your hopes, ambitions, plans, And to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses That once seemed so important Will fade away..
It won't matter where you came from, Or on what side of the tracks you lived,
At the end.
It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.
So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?
What will matter is not what you bought,
But what you built;
Not what you got, But what you gave?
What will matter is not your success,
But your significance.
What will matter is not what you learned,
But what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity,
Compassion,
Courage or sacrifice that enriched,
Empowered or encouraged others
To emulate your example.
What will matter is not your competence,
But your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew,
But how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone.
What will matter is not your memories,
But the memories that live in those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered,
By whom and for what.
Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident.
It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.